Living in Costa Rica: One Month Update

We’ve been living in Costa Rica for over a month now and are gradually adjusting to the changes we mentioned in our previous update. Even though we’ve been here for quite some time, many friends and family continue to ask, “Does it still feel like vacation?” Well, no, but we’re not sure that it ever did. With a tight monthly budget—don’t forget that we quit our day jobs—we haven’t indulged in too many tourist activities. Now that we are settling in though, we are finding our own ways to enjoy the paradise surrounding us. A trip to the beach here, an ice-cream cone there, plenty of beautiful wildlife, and a happy-hour drink or two, all help to keep our spirits high. Overall we are doing great, having fun, and starting to live a lot more pura vida, which is why we came here in the first place. Below are some of our biggest struggles and accomplishments so far.


Probably our biggest adjustment in Costa Rica so far has been the pure lack of convenience. Looking back, everything in the States was so easy. If you needed something, it was there. A quick stop to the store for this, a few clicks of the computer for that, and those big box stores that we thought we hated, those were awesome! Where we live in Costa Rica, things are a lot simpler. It’s not necessarily a bad thing, and we definitely don’t want a Target store going up in the middle of the jungle, but common, routine tasks seem to eat up our entire day. Doing one load of laundry takes a few hours. We have a washing machine but here is how it works. First you wash the clothes, drain them, move them to the spinner, spin, put them back in for a rinse, spin again, and finally hang to dry. Drying is a joke; did we mention that it’s the rainy season? Our clothesline never gets direct sunlight because it rains almost every afternoon, so the clothes never fully dry. Then when they’re folded and put away, they mildew and the process repeats.


Laundry Costa Rica


Buying a wireless router was another adventure that took us an entire afternoon. Yes, Costa Rica does have such things, but the shops near us are small, local businesses that have a little of this and a little of that. It’s great because you see a lot of the same faces when you go in, but it will probably take us years to learn where to go for what we need. Luckily, during our hunt we ran into our very nice landlord who pointed us in the right direction and saved us countless hours of searching.

Not having a car was a continuation of the above convenience problem. Riding the bus took forever. The other day the road to Quepos (the small city nearby) was down to only one lane because workers were installing new telephone poles, digging the holes by hand. The bus driver eventually had to turn off the engine and just wait, right as Jenn was about to pass out from the diesel exhaust fumes. We eventually got to where we needed to go but were glad that we weren’t trying to make an appointment or a bus connection. Luckily this past weekend, we finally purchased a car.


One of the major struggles we faced in our first update was food, figuring out what to eat and how to cook it. Well, my stomach and I are happy to report that Jenn has taken the lead and become an inspired cocinara (cook). She was back home too but has taken it to a new level here. For a while I thought we might have to live off corn chips and coffee but now it’s more like banana pancakes with coffee caramel sauce, fish tacos with mango salsa, and black bean soup with gently fried eggs. My favorite is the homemade granola bars with dried fruit. I even pitched in the other night to give her a break, cooking some spicy Thai noodles. The biggest part of our struggle with food, as you might remember, was getting the right ingredients. We’ve since thrown that out the door and started to improvise. Instead of buying expensive Thai chili paste, we used the blender and inexpensive fresh chilies to make our own. Instead of maple syrup (they don’t have the real stuff here), Jenn made her own caramel syrup. Things like that. The other night was Jenn’s ultimate triumph. She cooked dinner for a group of four Ticos, including our friend Roy, at our studio. Mojo marinated chicken fajitas with homemade salsa and guacamole. I knew she was stressed and nervous to serve the locals but when everyone had a second helping we both knew that victory was hers.




Settling into a work routine also has been somewhat successful. We get about a B minus on this one. We’ve started treating weekends like weekends and weekdays like workdays (when we’re not doing laundry). Blogging, book marketing, writing, and studying Spanish have all kept us busy during the days and we try to relax in the evenings by watching movies, having a cocktail, or reading up on the news back home.

Shaking off the isolation has been another recent accomplishment. Living with one another in a tiny studio which is also our office has been fine for the most part. But with very few friends here and a rotating crop of tourists that you can’t really get to know, loneliness does creep in eventually. To combat that, we’ve decided to get out of the house for happy-hour at least once a week. We’ve also had great exchanges through e-mail and Facebook with many friends and family. The best thing so far has been Facetime/Skype because we really feel like we’re spending quality time with whomever we are talking to.


Happy Hour Costa Rica


Our month plus in Costa Rica has definitely had its ups and downs but we feel like we are getting the hang of life here. Looking ahead, September brings us to a new house farther down the Pacific highway. We will miss our small studio in Manuel Antonio but are excited to explore new places and meet new people. With lots more rain to come and a new set of wheels, it should be quite an adventure—we’ll be sure to keep you posted.

Post by: Jennifer Turnbull-Houde & Matthew Houde

So What Happened Next . . . ?

In July 2013, we boarded a plane for a new life in Costa Rica. Want to follow our story as it happened? Check out the posts below to see how our dream became a reality and what it has been like so far.



  1. Congrats on your anniversary. We can relate to almost all of the points in your post – we do have an American style washer and dryer so that is a bonus for us. Despite the added time and inconvenience, we are going to truck along for awhile carless. We have been here just under 3 months and have a pretty good routine going; having fun while keeping the budget in tact. Keep up the great posts.

    1. Thanks for reading, Greg. Our laundry woes have made us realize how seriously we under-appreciated our old washer and dryer in the US. We actually just moved to a new place though that has American style units and, more importantly, gets direct sunlight. It was tough where we were in Manuel Antonio because we basically lived in the jungle. It was just so wet all the time. As soon as we got here, we rewashed our clothes and now everything’s great. The clothes practically crisp up in the sun! That’s cool that you guys are waiting on a car. Everyone says that cars are expensive not only because of the upfront cost but also because of all the maintenance. We got something pretty old but in decent shape, that way if it breaks down, at least we didn’t pay a ton to begin with. I was reluctant at first but I must say, it has been pretty awesome for trips to the grocery store, especially now that we’re farther out, and for when we want to go somewhere and there’s no bus. Looking forward to hearing more about you and Jen’s adventures! – Jenn

    2. How do you get house sitting jobs in Costa Rica? I’m a 66 year old woman living on Social Security in Portland, Oregon and I’ve been thinking about moving to Costa Rica.


  2. I am enjoying reading about your new life in CR, my husband and I are wanting to relocate there within the next few years or so. We have been doing lots of research about life in CR being we are bringing our two boys with us. We are already starting on learning Spanish to help in the transition. We are also planning a trip this summer and plan on staying for a week. .We are very excited to make this move.

    1. That’s exciting news, Courtney! You are very smart to already be jumping into Spanish. It has been an uphill battle for us but we are getting better every day. Let us know if you have any questions as your plans become more concrete. Costa Rica really is a wonderful place to live- all of the work will be worth it!

  3. Hey Matt & Jenn! My name is Tanina, and I was wondering what kind of jobs are available to sustain living in Costa Rica ? My fiancée and I are considering to move out there but we also need steady jobs to support our first child and live happily 🙂

    1. Hi Tanina, great question. Figuring out work is probably the biggest hurdle for most younger people who are considering making the move. Unfortunately, you can’t legally work for a CR company unless you’re a citizen (there are ways around this but it’s not easy). If you can work for a non-CR company via the Internet, that’s probably your best bet. Hope that helps and good luck with your plans.

  4. Come on… give me a brake. I m costarican, just go and buy a dryer machine or a better washing machine (automatic one)… we do have those! …

    1. Hi Marianela, that was our first rental in Costa Rica (July/August 2013) and it wasn’t equipped with a modern machine or dryer. We just had to make due with what we had and adapt, which was all part of the process for us. Since then we’ve lived in many different places, and had all kinds of washing machines and most of the time dryers too. Still, we’re happy to have had the experience, it has taught us a lot about what to look for in rentals here in Costa Rica.

  5. Hello, I just found this, this is great, I’m a costarican, I’m happy you both are enjoying our country, at first it’s always a struggle to settle down in a new country or environment, but most ticos try to help foreigners so they have a good impression of our country.
    I have a question, what do you mean when you said we don’t have the real stuff here?
    Hope you both get settle and enjoy living here, and have a good perspective of us
    Keep up the stories
    And as we all say, Pura Vida, see you around “mae”

    1. Hi Eduardo,
      Thanks so much for checking out our blog. We love your country! We’ve been here for 2 years now and are much more settled than when we wrote this post. We’re actually expecting a baby this November so aren’t planning on leaving anytime soon 🙂 About the maple syrup, we just meant that all we could find was the sugary stuff that doesn’t actually come from a maple tree. We used to live in Vermont for a while so we got used to the really good stuff. We now know that you can find it here but would never buy it since it costs around $30 a bottle. Have you ever tried it?

  6. This all sounds fantastic. My wife and I are seriously considering retiring in Costa Rica, and all this information is great. Thanks a lot.

  7. This summer I will be visiting Costa Rica for a month, staying with a host family (I don’t know anything about them yet, or even the area of the country). Are there any US foods or gifts you could suggest I bring that they won’t have there? A couple suggestions from the organization sending me were Ranch and Mac & cheese. However, they also send kids to other countries, like in Asia, and I’m sure availability of products like that from one continent to another is very different! Thanks!

    1. Hi Barb, This is a great question! I am not sure Ticos would like Ranch or Mac and Cheese. Mac and Cheese is available here too, but I think mostly foreigners buy it. Maybe something unique from the area you are from. For example, if you are from Boston, you could get a Red Sox hat and explain the significance of that to them. Ticos are thoughtful so would appreciate something like that. For women, good shampoos and other body products are much appreciated. We have brought them back to the ladies who help us with our kids and they have loved them.

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